Feng shui at home: the main ideas, room by room
Design IRL Editorial · Checked 8 November 2026 · For anyone curious about feng shui for their home, or furnishing a room with it in mind · How we make our guides
Feng shui practitioners place the bed, desk and stove in the 'commanding position', where you can see the door without being in line with it, and balance rooms with five elements: wood, fire, earth, metal and water. Feng shui is a Chinese tradition built around the flow of qi; scientists describe it as non-scientific, and its schools disagree on a lot.
The main ideas
- Qi (chi): the Gale Encyclopedia of Alternative Medicine describes the feng shui view that everything contains qi, the energy or life force. Practitioners arrange rooms so it can move without rushing or getting stuck.
- The commanding position: architect and feng shui teacher Anjie Cho says to place your bed, desk and stove where you can see the door, ideally diagonally across from it, without being directly in line with it.
- The five elements: wood, fire, earth, metal and water, which the Encyclopedia of Occultism and Parapsychology describes as related in a cycle of creation and destruction. Cho gives examples: water feeds wood; water puts out fire.
- The bagua: a map the International Feng Shui Guild (IFSG) describes as a guide to the areas of a space that need more balance or focus. Its centre is treated as a neutral zone.
- Clutter: the IFSG defines clutter as anything that obstructs qi. Cho says clutter collects stagnant (yin) qi.
The five elements in decor
| Element | Colours | Shapes | Materials and objects practitioners link to it |
|---|---|---|---|
| Wood | Green (Cho adds blue and teal) | Tall, vertical, columns | Plants, flowers, paper, wood |
| Fire | Red | Triangles, pyramids, cones | Lighting, candles, sunlight, leather and wool |
| Earth | Yellow, earth tones | Squares, rectangles | Ceramics, tile, brick, a clay pot, chequered fabric |
| Metal | Grey, white, metallics (the IFSG adds pastels) | Circles, ovals, arches | Brass, copper, silver, pewter; a round tray or oval frame |
| Water | Black, dark blue | Wavy, irregular | Glass, crystal, mirrors, fountains, fish tanks |
Practitioners use these to balance a room: a plant to add wood, a brass tray for metal, a ceramic pot for earth. Cho adds that dead or dying plants work against you. IFSG member Dee Oujiri matches rugs to elements, from deep blue and wavy for water to beige and terracotta for earth, and suggests a rug as a 'speed bump' where qi would rush down a long hallway.
Not everyone uses objects
Classical practitioner Master Sean Chan rejects decorative 'cures' such as bagua mirrors, crystals, talismans and lucky bamboo, saying they aren't part of classical feng shui. If a fix requires you to buy something, he says, it's probably not classical.
Entrance
Cho says your entry represents how you face the outside world, and advises keeping it clean, clutter-free and well lit, on a dimmer if possible. Where the front door lines up with a back door or a big window, Oujiri suggests a rug to slow qi down. Sean Chan, on the other hand, counts the idea that a straight line of doors 'drains wealth' among the myths he examines.
Living room
The main advice practitioners give for the living room is to place the sofa in the commanding position: facing the door, diagonally across from it, with a solid wall behind. The five-element table above is the usual way to choose colours and accessories for it.
Bedroom
Cho describes a bed directly in line with the door as the 'coffin position', and says the ideal is a bed from which you can see the door, with your back to a solid wall, usually diagonally across from it. If the bed can't move, she suggests a mirror that lets you see the door, and a solid headboard without bars or holes.
The Gale Encyclopedia notes the guidance that mirrors shouldn't face beds.
Where the schools differ
Sean Chan says the coffin-position fear isn't found in the classical Chinese texts, and that the real issue is a lighter sleep and less sense of safety. He gives a physical reason for the mirror rule too: catching your own reflection or moving shadows when you wake can disturb sleep.
Desk and home office
Cho's advice is to sit where you can see the door but aren't directly in line with it, diagonally across and facing it. Consultants may also suggest moving an office to a different room or reorganising storage, as the Gale Encyclopedia notes.
Kitchen
Cho includes the stove in the commanding position. Where you can't see the door while cooking, she suggests a mirror placed so you can. On colour, she calls metal (white and metallics) one of the better choices for a kitchen.
Sean Chan says a sink within about 60 cm of the stove, or facing it, sets water against fire. He separates them with at least a cabinet or a stretch of counter, with no objects needed, and notes that splashing and grease are practical reasons for the same layout. Vastu practitioners give the same advice for the same reason.
The schools of feng shui
- Form school: the oldest branch, which reads the shape of the land and the flow of wind and water.
- Compass school: later techniques based on the eight directions, read with a luopan, a disc of formulas around a magnetic compass. The IFSG says Classical feng shui combines form and compass methods.
- Black Sect Tantric Buddhist (BTB): a modern school, associated with Thomas Lin Yun's temple in Berkeley, California, that lays the bagua from the front door (the 'three door method') instead of by compass. Cho, who practises BTB, says it doesn't use compass directions.
The biggest practical difference is how the bagua is laid over your home: by compass direction (classical and compass schools) or from the front door (BTB). Two consultants from different schools can give you different answers for the same room. Ole Bruun's Cambridge introduction describes these competing schools, in China and the newer Western ones.
Common questions
What is the commanding position in feng shui?
The commanding position means placing your bed, desk or stove where you can see the door, ideally diagonally across from it, without being directly in line with it. Architect and feng shui teacher Anjie Cho recommends it for the main pieces of furniture in a home.
Where should the bed be placed as per feng shui?
Feng shui teacher Anjie Cho recommends a bed from which you can see the door, with your back to a solid wall, usually diagonally across from the door. She calls a bed directly in line with the door the 'coffin position', though classical practitioner Master Sean Chan says that fear isn't found in the classical Chinese texts.
Is a mirror facing the bed bad feng shui?
Feng shui guidance says mirrors shouldn't face beds, as the Gale Encyclopedia of Alternative Medicine notes. Classical practitioner Master Sean Chan gives a physical reason: catching your own reflection or moving shadows when you wake can disturb sleep.
What are the five elements in feng shui?
The five elements in feng shui are wood, fire, earth, metal and water, related in a cycle of creation and destruction. Practitioners link each to colours and objects, such as green and plants for wood, red and lighting for fire, and black, glass and fountains for water, and use them to balance a room.
Can the sink be next to the stove in feng shui?
Master Sean Chan says a sink within about 60 cm of the stove, or facing it, sets water against fire, and separates them with at least a cabinet or a stretch of counter. Splashing and grease are practical reasons for the same layout, and Vastu practitioners give the same advice.
What are the different schools of feng shui?
The main feng shui schools are the Form school, which reads the shape of the land; the Compass school, which uses the eight directions and a luopan compass; and the modern Black Sect Tantric Buddhist (BTB) school, which lays the bagua from the front door. Consultants from different schools can give different answers for the same room.
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Related guides
- Vastu for your home, room by roomWhat the Vastu texts and today's practitioners recommend for the entrance, living room, kitchen, bedrooms, puja room, toilets, stairs and the centre of the house, and where they disagree.
- Vastu in a flat you can't rebuildWhat practitioners suggest when the walls can't move: furniture, sleeping direction, room use, mirrors, light and the no-demolition 'remedies', plus what your society's rules allow.
- Hiring a Vastu consultant in IndiaWhat a Vastu consultant does, when to bring one in relative to your architect, what they charge in India, the questions to ask, the warning signs, and how to get their advice into your drawings.
Sources
Vastu and feng shui are traditions; what they recommend is given as their texts and practitioners describe it, not as established fact.
- ‘Feng Shui’ entries (Gale Encyclopedia of Alternative Medicine and others), Encyclopedia.com, May 2018
- Ole Bruun, ‘Cosmological principles, schools of interpretation and the feng shui compass’, An Introduction to Feng Shui, Cambridge University Press (2008)
- ‘Feng shui’, Wikipedia (accessed 8 Nov 2026)
- ‘Feng Shui Perspectives and Schools’, International Feng Shui Guild
- Diane Alba-Means, ‘Decorating with the Five Elements’, International Feng Shui Guild
- Dee Oujiri, ‘Styling your space with feng shui: the rug edition’, International Feng Shui Guild
- ‘What is Feng Shui: the basics and how it works’, International Feng Shui Guild
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